Stop meeting in bedroom. One thing about being his hookup partner is that the place for you to meet is only restricted in the bedroom, because you are nothing to him more than the one who meet his sexual desire. You need to change it first by stopping meeting him in the bedroom. If he calls you next time for one night hookup, ask him out for a dinner or some coffee first. Try to spend more time with each other doing other things other than making love. Don’t cut off your sexual relationship right away, because he doesn’t feel attachment to you for now. If you refuse to make love to him, he might just move on to another and forget all about you. The first thing you need to do is doing more things together more than making love. Just start from having coffee and the dinner. Take baby steps.
Start to date. If he doesn’t mind having a coffee with you before making love, then you can move on to the next step. Asking him out for a date on your initiative. Since it might seem impossible for him to ask you out, you can take initiative on your half. It doesn’t matter who takes the first move, what matters is how to get him into you. Try to keep it as casual as possible. Try not to be so obvious about your intention. Usually, if a man doesn’t hate you,, he would refuse to go out on a date with you. Given the fact that you are already sleeping with each other, he would definitely answer your request. But just in case, you need to find the perfect timing to bring it up to him. For example, after you are finished in bed when you are both in a very good mood, you may pretend to be unintentionally bring up a proposal like this “I heard there is a new restaurant in your neighborhood. Maybe next time we could grab some food there.” Such natural proposal can hardly be rejected. You can use this trick for many times. Before he notices, you have gone on several dates already.
Talk about things other than your sexual interactions. At first, he might only think about getting you in bed with him at the beginning, but don’t let him. Try to lead the topic to more private and personal subjects, such as your work, your family, your relationship with your parents. The point is to get him to know more about you more than just your body. By doing this, he gets to know more about you and your personalities. During this period of time, you should try to charm him with your characteristics. Don’t flirt with him and don’t talk dirty to him.
Don’t always initiate the contact. This time, he may have known more about you more than just things in bed. He might have gotten used to you. Now what you need to do is keep him interested and waiting. If possible, make him jealous. The feeling of losing someone can boost the develop of a relationship faster and more effective than you think. Regardless of how you meet, whether it is through trans hookup app or through friends, there is always chance to revert a hookup to relationship.
